Wonderments

So, with all the changes going on, I have a few wonders to add to my ever growing list of wonderments...

New Wonderment #1:

After a breakup, why does it feel so great to get a haircut? Is it psychological to desire to cut things away from you...literally?

New Wonderment #2:

Why would you think it is EVER okay to wear clothes like you are defending your street corner when going to the grocery store, convenience store, gas station, ANY place. I get it, it's hot...does that mean I have to see you shake your money maker?

New Wonderment #3:

What makes a ball player look so great when they are sweaty and dirty, but any other person would just look like they need a shower? Seriously, is it the uniform?

New Wonderment #4:
Why is it okay to mention the obvious to someone who doesn't need it mentioned..."Wow, you look like crap!" Thanks, I needed that!

New Wonderment #5:

What happened to getting to know someone before giving out information that is really super sensitive...this whole dating thing is scary enough. I really didn't need to know about your fetishes within the first 5 minutes of meeting you, but thanks!

New Wonderment #6:

Why do people feel the need to know who a celebrity is dating, or if they broke up, or that they had a bad day. It happens to everyone; we "regular" people don't want our feelings broadcast for the world, so why would we want to exploit others who are in pain, going through a bad time, or just need a vacation from their own messes they created?

New Wonderment #7:

Why is Justin Bieber a star? Don't get it...

New Wonderment #8:

When hoping to have your broken heart mended do we feel the need to talk endlessly about it...aren't we just reminding ourselves of the hurt? Yes, I know, this includes me but I am trying!

New Wonderment #9:

If I really cared about your weekend, how last night was, or what you are doing in a month, I would have asked you. Why do you feel the need to share this unsolicited information!

New Wonderment #10:

Not really a wonderment, just an observation...that statement of "why do bad things happen to good people?"...yeah, here is my take on it. Bad things happen to both the "good" people and "bad" people. The difference is that we notice and care when it is the "good" people, and really don't care less is they are "bad". Our brains ignore and disregard the bad people so much that we forget what they go through, or somehow feel it is justice when something happens to them, then move on. With the good people we focus a bit more because we somehow think that could be us.