Below are a list of these words or phrases, and what they may mean. Mind you, this is not a complete list of everything I may say to show happiness, sadness, satisfaction, dissatisfaction, or any other state of mind that may occur, but it is the most commonly used options.
"Is there anything I can do for you?"
This term is used when I want to have someone know I want to help them out as I can, and I would like to know what would be the most helpful for them at that moment. I have found from my own personal situations that attempting to fix someone else's problems does not actually do anything but lead to resentment. People often times do not need a band-aid for their issues, but rather someone to just listen to them, allow them to have a voice in airing whatever grievances they may be feeling.
Originally, I found this term very comforting when I was a stay-at-home mom, dealing with 2 children under the age of 2. There were days I felt I was going to lose my mind. The women from church would stop by or call me to say hello, and always ask me this question. I found it to be both a sweet gesture, but also a gesture that showed their care of me, of my children, and of anything that may be helpful to my family. In the years since then, it has provided much needed solace from the disruption of life's hiccups that may come my way.
Look, I am not a mind-reader. If you lose your keys and are craving an Icee from the convenience store, but don't tell me, chances are I won't run out and get you the Icee. If you, however, tell me you need the Icee because you are having a bad day and lost your keys, consider it done. You will also need to let me know what flavor you want.
"It's fine."
Depending upon the circumstance, usually this is signal for disappointment, or feelings of unhappiness with a situation.
"Fine"
Similar to the phrase "It's fine" this usually is being used at a time of disappointment, unhappiness or feeling misguided.
"K"
I am not happy at all with whatever is being presented. It can be a very docile way I am showing extreme displeasure.
"Sure"
Danger zone possibly ahead. If I am agreeing with something, 9 out of 10 times the word 'yes' will be used. This word may be used most often when being sarcastic or silly, but also when feeling forced to compromise on something I do not want to compromise on.
"Yep"
Typically, when using this term I am not happy, and trying to just compromise about whatever is being discussed. Term has been used in a positive manner, but most the time this is a "Danger, Will Robinson" type of situation, so proceed with caution.
"Okay" or "OK"
The opposite of the initial K - this is where I am agreeing with something, and in favor of or finding favor with whatever I am agreeing about.
"Sounds good"
I am in agreement to the current situation, offer, suggestion at hand.
"I don't mind..."
Usually used when being asked my opinion, being asked to do something, or offering to do something. When saying this, it really means I am willing to do whatever it is being asked. No hidden translations, or second-guessing on my intentions are needed.
"Well..."
Usually starting off a sentence, this is used when attempting to agree or maybe ask for additional information. It may also be used in a silly sarcastic manner to emphasize a point. This word is harmless.
"I know"
This is a way of me agreeing with a statement, or finding similar ground with the other person. Usually used when I am excited, and know becomes 2 syllables instead of 1.
"Make it happen"
This is a term that once adorned a wall within my former company. Legend has it that a person had said it so often, the company owner / President decided to have it added to the wall quotes when moving into a newer office location. When using this term, it is typically used in sarcasm and fun. The term is not used for aggression or to show distaste for something.
"It's all good"
Again, this is a term that I stared at for nearly a year at my former company. This is another saying that is used sarcastically, but never to harm someone.
No comments:
Post a Comment